Why do I not feel happy in my marriage?

Are you pushing your partner to fill the emptiness in your heart with more attention, more gestures, and more of what you THINK will make you ‘happy’?

 It might surprise you… it won’t.

Listen, I’ve been there. 

Waiting for my husband to DO something that’ll satisfy me

Or.. even waiting on him to do something I DON’T like so I can jump on that with attitude 

Why? Because I wanted him to fill my void of love. 

And although he was an amazing man, I ruined so many special moments simply because I was being so dependent and controlling on this man doing the “right” things that would bring me deep satisfaction & joy 

But that was not what turned my marriage around. 

That’s not what allowed us to connect on such deep levels with unconditional love 

That’s not what allowed us to now never fight, like ever. No arguments or nothing 

That wasn’t the answer to steamy love where we just can’t get enough 

That wasn’t the answer to ME feeling so full of myself with love and confidence that I no longer looked at him for that validation, I was so full of self-love & worthiness that it naturally poured over to him

That’s what happened when I Emotionally Regulated. 

When I understood where deep satisfaction came from. 

Now? 

I was filling my own cup because I understood that other people aren’t here to fill my void. 

They’re here to amplify the amazing emotions and time that I am already having on my own 

Emotional Regulation unlocks the door to that life-giving, passionate, heart-throbbing mood that gives depth & breath to every moment 

No longer waiting, because you already figured it out. 

You’re now high-flying, and others are just in awe of you, they come to you with happiness & joy because that’s what you attract from them

They WANT to satisfy you 

They WANT to shower you with love 

Because you’re not in that NEEDY energy anymore

You’re emotionally independent 

And you bring that magic to every room you walk into 

Are you ready for that? 

Send me a message for 1:1 Coaching OR to join the Emotionally Aligned Circle, a group of women rising together in Emotional Wellbeing, so you can thrive and live that passion-filled life NOW 

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